Kaffy dance gives insights on her marriage to her ex husband


Kaffy has spoken out about childhood traumas as well as marital troubles, including infidelity. 


During an interview with media personality Chude Jideonwo, the record-breaking dancer stated that if she had known, she would not have rushed into marriage.

She also revealed that she had quit sleeping with her ex-husband, Joseph Ameh, three years before their relationship ended. She claimed that staying celibate helped her heal from his adulterous unfaithfulness.

Kaffy acknowledged that her spouse not only cheated on her with strangers, but also with friends and relatives. 


She also discussed her parents' tumultuous marriage, which was marred by domestic violence.

The dancer sobbed as she described her parents' destructive relationship, revealing that they attacked each other with whatever weapons they could find around the house. She went on to say that when they quarrel, they have to start hiding knives and other deadly weapons from their parents. 



One of the mistakes the mother-of-two made before marriage was expecting her spouse to make her happy. She claimed that pinning your happiness on someone else is selfish, and that only you can make yourself happy.